Insideout Living

Trauma-Informed Coaching for Women, Couples, and Leaders.

Where restoration begins — in you, between you, and among us.

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There comes a moment when the life you’ve built no longer fits the way it once did.

The titles, the partnerships, the success — they still matter, but something deeper whispers: there’s more.

Insideout Living is a trauma-informed coaching and leadership practice that guides women, men, and couples through the embodied process of remembering who they are beneath performance, pressure, and survival.

This isn’t therapy that analyzes your past.
It’s a transformation that restores your presence — spiritually, emotionally, and somatically.
Through a blend of neuroscience, ancestral wisdom, and embodied coaching, we help you reconnect to what’s already within.

Because when one person heals, it ripples through families, relationships, teams, and generations.
The work begins within — but it never stays there.

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The Three Pathways

Healing Isn’t Linear — It’s Layered

Every offering speaks to a stage of restoration: the individual awakening, the partnership rediscovering rhythm, and the man reclaiming integrity.

Our work blends neuroscience, somatic wisdom, and lived spiritual insight. It’s trauma-informed, culturally rooted, and unapologetically human.

Whether in a circle, a coaching session, or a leadership room, the invitation is the same: lead, love, and live from truth.

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For Women:
The Second Knowing™

“You’ve done everything right. And yet… something still aches.”

A spiritual and somatic coaching journey for women ready to stop striving and start becoming.
Move from awakening to embodiment — from awareness to action — in a rhythm of rest, reflection, and remembrance.

Discover The Second Knowing™ →

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For Couples:
Coaching with Lisa Lackey

“We still love each other… we just forgot how to reach.”

For strong, accomplished couples who want to rebuild emotional safety, trust, and connection — without losing themselves.
Trauma-informed coaching that teaches how to manage conflict, remove blame, and enhance connection.

Rebuild Together

For Men:
Safe Tables™ with Steve Lackey

“You don’t need another pep talk. You need a place to be honest.”

A structured space for men to rebuild truth, discipline, and peace without performance.
Leadership begins where the mask comes off.

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Meet the Founders

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Lisa Lackey

M.A., LCPC, CSAT, CMAT

Women’s Transformation & Deep Identity Coach

“You’re not broken; you’re becoming.”

Lisa holds a Master’s in Counseling and is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (LCPC) with advanced certifications in trauma and addiction recovery (CSAT, CMAT).

Her 25+ years of clinical and somatic practice inform her work as a Women’s Transformation + Deep Identity Coach, and Couples Coach, bringing depth, safety, and evidence-based wisdom to every session.

Learn more about Lisa →

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Steven Lackey

M.A., ASAT, AMAT, CPLC

Men’s Transformation & Identity Recovery Coach

“Where men rebuild truth, not image.”

Steve earned a Master’s in Psychology and holds advanced certifications in sexual addiction treatment (ASAT, AMAT) and Certified Professional Life Coach (CPLC).

With more than 25 years of experience guiding men through recovery, accountability, and personal leadership, he combines clinical insight with grounded mentorship inside Safe Tables for Men™.

Learn more about Steven →

Client Reflections: Stories of Healing & Growth

  • “I came to Lisa to manage stress. Through The Second Knowing™, I left remembering my power and peace.”

    —The Second Knowing™ trauma-informed coaching participant

  • “We still had love, but no language. Lisa’s couples coaching gave us both.”

    —Couples Coaching client

  • “Steve’s honesty and Safe Tables™ men’s leadership coaching changed how I show up as a man, husband, and father.”

    —Safe Tables member

Wherever you begin, we’ll meet you there.

Whether you’re seeking clarity, connection, or courage, Insideout Living offers trauma-informed coaching and leadership support that helps you rediscover your presence and peace.

Because the world doesn’t need a more polished you.

It needs a present you.

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Your Healing, Heals Others.

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